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Happiness
@ 29. Sep. 2008. – 07:15:44 pm
In Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi's book 'FINDING FLOW' he says that people are more likely to be happy if they are:
Healthy; Extrovert; having strong self-esteem; in a stable marriage and have religious faith.
Oh well, perhaps my strong Spiritual Faith will keep a smile on my face. And.....I can be quite extrovert after half a bottle of red wine = maybe I should drink more.
Ozzzy
*Csikszentmihalyi is pronounced chick-SENT-me high
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Unrequited Love
@ 23. Sep. 2008. – 09:37:19 pm
Girls,
What is it about love that makes you want it exactly when you can't have it?
There you are (you'll notice I said YOU not I) drooling over this god only to discover that he is completely unavailable......
Somewhere close by an admirer is drooling over you, thinks you are gorgeous and the best thing since sliced bread the person is 'nice' and not ugly so why are you shooing them out of the way so you can get a better view of Mr. Unavailable?
Attraction is a must for me if I am to fancy someone but the attraction is not necessarily sexual, it can be on other levels such as the intellectual, spiritual or emotional levels but there has to be a connection of some description. I want to look into someone's face and think "Geeze, come here I could eat you! Phoare!" Well OK maybe there has to be some sexual attraction after all.
I'm feeling so frustrated, seeing these desirable hunks everywhere and they are all married.
On the positive side, I think that the Universe has heard my prayer (the one asking for my soul mate) and is busy collating all the guys with the right attributes and sending them my way. Mixed in amongst the married ones, there will be a singleton just waiting to find me; his twin flame.
I'm keeping my eyes peeled and my heart open.
Ciao, Ozzzy ;-)
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Arachnophobia ? Definately!!!
@ 20. Aug. 2008. – 03:11:59 pm
This is the shoe I put my bare foot into this morning.....
and this is what tickled my toes.....
That's a pint glass by the way and yes, I do know the date on my camera is wrong (Just going to fix it now)
Ciao, squeamish Oz
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Family Advice Needed
@ 16. Aug. 2008. – 02:19:50 pm
Does anyone have helpful advice or can you recommend a good book for a single mother an who has just started dating again, her only son is eleven years old.
The son hates his mother's new boyfriend and is so angry that she is going out with him that he says he wants to kill him. The son is very emotional about the situation and believes that the only solution is for the dating to stop.
The mother doesn't want to begin behaviours that will encourage the son to think he can control what his mother does and with whom but she doesn't want to get into a power struggle, she wants a win-win situation for her and her son but she doesn't know how to go about it.Have any of you had experience of a similar situation and how did you deal with it?
Ciao, Ozzzy
